I’d like to take a moment to talk about something important to me. I was never one of the super popular girls in high school. I was what’s commonly called, “a floater”. I knew everyone and was very friendly (the drama club in me) and could safely say I wasn’t shunned by anyone. However, because of this, I never learned the tricks and trade of hair, make-up, and fashion. You know, the kind of tips that get handed down from one generation of cheerleader to the next. The seniors to the freshman. I spent my high school days with my hair straight and down, in a pony tail, or in a huge mess of curls on my head when I felt like sleeping in curlers. And I never owned a beauty magazine and rarely went to the salon to get my hair cut so I didn’t have the opportunity to browse for any secrets while I waited my turn! I didn’t know simple, neat little tricks. And I guess, I want to share what I’ve managed to learn later in life with you as I pick them up now, in my twenties.
Simple Updo Hairstyle
★ brush or comb
★ hair tie
★ bobby pins or small clips
★ curling iron (3/4) (for versions two and three of this style)
Pull your hair into a semi-high ponytail. Next you’ll want to take your finger, wiggle it into your ponytail (in between your scalp and the hair tie) and pull the remainder of your up from the bottom and through. Pull to tighten. From there you want to take the last 3/4 of your hair and flip it under your ponytail and securely pin it. If you want, before you pin it up, you have the option of giving your hair more lift and body. It can give you a “messy bed head” look. The longer your hair, the easier this is, which is why (because my hair is so layered) I chose not to. To do this, section off the hair in your ponytail to four or five sections and using your brush, hold the section straight up and brush from top to bottom (towards your hair tie) to spread it and give it more lift. After you’ve done this to all sections you can begin to pin it under and up.
Version 2
You also have the option of curling your hair (or if you have curly hair simply don’t straighten) and achieving a more elegant evening look. To do this we’ll need to curl your hair after it’s in your pony tail. For thicker hair you should consider splitting your hair into two different pony tails, one for the top hair and one for the bottom, and then curl those. After curling, gently tug the pony tails out (if you did two) and then reset into one. Then follow the same steps as above, except instead of clipping it up you can let the curls hang.
Version 3
This is my personal favorite, perhaps because it feels very Asian to me, but the steps are easy. To do this simply follow the steps for the elegant low hanging curl, and pin it up like you would the straight bun!
29 Comments
Julia
15 Jan 2013 at 1:38 amthanks! works great! and i would totally be your friend in HS 😉
Amy Chapman
20 Dec 2012 at 1:53 pmWow you are a hair genius! I am so super impressed. THanks for all your great hair ideas!
Sarah
3 Aug 2012 at 10:33 pmThis was so cute and super easy! THANKS!
Ali
2 Dec 2011 at 5:32 amCan you possibly post this video on you tube? I can’t access the videos on the website
Sara
2 Dec 2011 at 1:42 pmUploading right now!
Sara
2 Dec 2011 at 2:26 pmI uploaded it to Vimeo and YouTube. It should play in this post properly now, but if it doesn’t here are the links:
http://vimeo.com/33037997
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=POyCdHIprUY
Susan
26 Oct 2011 at 4:56 pmYour easy up do steps saved me at the last minute for a wedding event. It looked great and I got lots of compliments. Thank you so much!
Krista
9 Sep 2011 at 6:47 pmI found your blog via pinterest and love it! I read the first paragraph of this post and thought “HEY! That sounds like me!!!”…definitely the same experience in high school. 🙂 Wonderful hairstyles…loving the “Gibson updo”
Charmine
27 Sep 2010 at 12:22 amThanks for sharing. I like your idea of sharing your beauty ideas to all of us. I just hope many more women can benefit from this. Styling your hair to be as beautiful as you can be is the really the best way to keep your confidence. I just hope people who have hair loss problems will do the same. Thanks again for sharing.
Dani
7 May 2009 at 9:02 amI never messed with makeup or my hair either. When I was in high school, I had long, super straight hair and would put it up on all kinds of crazy do’s (my famous one being Leia buns), but never learned to truly style it. I was never girly, and my mom was never someone I could ask. I still don’t know much about either. The most I’ve learned is for this wedding. I bought a bunch of Bare Escentuals makeup and have been dabbling with it, and as much as I hate to admit it…it’s kind of fun. =3
My hair is short now, and naturally curly, so I think if I did what your video showed, it would look totally different. It might not even work because my hair is shorter, but I want to at least try it with the first step when you pull the ponytail through itself.
Thanks for the tips and the video. As someone else said, it’s fun and easy and something a beginner can definitely follow. =]
Emily
6 May 2009 at 8:12 pmI love this post so much. Not because I can use the info (updo’s and dreadlocks don’t really go together), but because I was a ‘floater’ too and now find myself Google-ing things like “makeup for beginners”. You are doing a great service to humanity 😉 :hearts;
phoenix
6 May 2009 at 7:36 pmI haven’t yet had a chance to watch the video, but I intend to, as that’s a pretty and elegant style and it looks like my hair’s just long enough for it now. I love that you’re sharing what you’ve learned! Same as you, I didn’t learn this girl-knowledge from others, and while I have odd little daydreams of learning it in person, from friends, at awfully cliched teenage-movie-style sleepovers, it’s brilliant that technology allows us unlessoned girls to teach each other across the world.
stacey
6 May 2009 at 1:54 ambeautiful! thanks for the video!
Lysha
5 May 2009 at 9:02 pmAhhh this makes me miss my long hair so much! I’m kind of like you – I didn’t even own a blow-dryer until the last year or so. I just kind of… went with the flow, with moderate, sometimes interesting results! But when I had long hair my favourite thing to do was pin it up in all kinds of complicated, twisty ways.
Your hair looks so gorgeous in all of those pics! So glossy and smooth!
Nicole Lee
5 May 2009 at 8:31 pmIt looks fantastic! And version 3 is my favorite as well. Thanks for sharing, dear. =]
Jessa
5 May 2009 at 7:58 pmOhmigosh. I was absolutely mesmerized by this post, because – like you – I have no idea how do to anything fashionable. And this is so simple, yet I never even thought to do it! Actually, I think this would probably work well, because my long-ass hair doesn’t do well in those hair clips, because it just looks… blah. I am totally trying this tomorrow. Thanks for the tip!
Oh, and P.S. – You have gorgeous hair, FYI. *grins*
Criri
5 May 2009 at 7:17 pmLady you are brilliant!